Archive for May, 2008

Labor Day

At 6:30 am I woke up to the sound of “Andyyy, I need you.” I bolted up from the couch and ran into the bathroom where my wife greeted me with, “I think my water just broke.” Indeed. We kept cool, allowing only smiles and giggles to move us forward as we (mostly me) scrambled to pack my hospital bag (I really thought I had more time, ha)

We got to the hospital about 7:30 am (which wasn’t hard since it’s 2 blocks away) and we’ve been here ever since (It’s 4:46 pm as I write this post).  Elizabeth is doing well. Her cervix is dilated at 6 centimeters which is remarkable considering that as of our doc appointment on Friday, there were no signs the baby was coming anytime soon. (Although the physician’s assistant did say on our way out, “We’ll see you next Tuesday for the sonogram unless something happens over the weekend, which I hope it does”)

Elizabeth has been really strong throughout the labor. The pain was a lot worse than she imagined but the epidural that she received an hour ago seems to be doing the trick.  And Elizabeth’s managed to get a couple of cat naps in.  I got 10 minutes myself outside of helping Elizabeth into a bath, change her bed pads, get ice chips and popscicles and keep in touch with outside world of family and friends. The text messages of love and prayers are more than anyone could ask for. Keep em coming.

 I’ve even had a chance to read a few chapters in a book about supeheroes and faith, and watch 15 minutes of my favorite movie “Raising Arizona” (most appropriate for the day).  And the iPOD is putting out some mellow labor tunes..Alexi Murdoch, Joe Purdy, Enya, Iron & Wine, and U2’s Window in the Skies are the perfect soundtrack for this new and exciting chapter in life.

Well…I better go and get back to Elizabeth.  Family is on the way from Louisana, Cleveland, Charlotte and Tallahassee. In a few hours one more should be here, straight from the womb and into a bassinette to cap off a beautiful May day in Maryland.

More news, including our gir’s name, and pictures coming soon!

Condoleeza’s KISS

Guess who just signed up with the KISS army? That’s right, Condoleeza Rice, secretary of state, concert pianist and Birmingham girl, whose favorite KISS song is “Rock and Roll All Nite.” Check out the Associated Press Story, which includes the photo above, here:

http://ap.google.com/article/ALeqM5h7G-KufUGv1zlEfpfLz8REbDAKMAD91029FG0

There’s No Show Like LOST

(Poster adveterising Season 4 Opener. Note the reflection of the skyscrapers and number 6 in the water, a hint at the rescuing of the six passengers who survived the Oceaning 515 crash on The Island. Those crafty creators)

Last night’s season finale of LOST, “There’s No Place Like Home,” was an incredible, mind-blowing experience.  I’ve never seen an episode or TV show quite like this one.  The show’s creators really know how to tell a story and this ranks up there with the very best in our culture.

For those of you who have seen bits and pieces of LOST over the years, and thought it was hard to understand or cheesy and far-fetched, give the show another chance. I had the same feelings until I came down with a cold in February and began watching Seasons 1 and 2 (which a member of the church loaned me). I was immediately hooked.  It’s truly an amazing show that is filled with literary, music, film and historical event references that all relate to the main theme which is the “capacity for good and evil that exists in every person.”  Not a new concept, but one that is told in a fresh and exciting way–loaded with spirituality, ethics, romance, adventure, suspense, mystery, drama and action. Christianity, Judaism, Islam and Buddishm play major roles in the series, and the faith aspects of the show is one of the strongest hooks that pulls people onto The Island and into the lives of the survivors of Oceanic 815 and The Others.

A couple of days before the Season 4 finale, I finished up the stories and events that make up Season 3, thus completing four seasons of LOST in 4 months!  A lot of LOST, but most definitely worth it.  The benefit to watching previous seasons while a current season is airing is that you’re able to pick up on the many subtleties in the show and put more of the pieces to this puzzling story together, which makes for a really wonderful eye-opening experience.

I have always found TV and film to be mediums in which artists express their own faith and social commentary about the world around them, and LOST embodies this idea fully.  There are so many things going on in LOST, thought, that well you can get lost.  So it’s also been helpful to turn to some solid resources as I reflect on the meaning of LOST and the message it has for humanity.   Two books I recommend are: “LOST’S Buried Treasures” by Lynnette Porter, David Lavery and Hillary Robson (contains all of the book, TV, film references for Seasons 1-3) “Unlocking The Meaning of Lost” (explores references made in series but focuses more on character choices and themes); “LOST and Philosophy: The Island Has It’s Reasons” (one of the books in the Blackwell Philosophy and Pop Culture Series that contains several essays on the philosophical and religious themes in the show).

Recently I just ordered (along with Seasons 1-3 on DVD) the book “What Can Be Found in LOST: Insights on God and the Meaning of Life from the Popular TV Series” by John Ankerburg. I’m looking forward to reading this one as it is likely to delve a bit deeper into the many God and religious themes of the series.

The show, as you can imagine, has a huge cult following because of the mystery that surrounds it and the great storytelling that keeps folks on the edge of their seat from week to week. Because the creators of LOST do such a brilliant job crafting their tale, i.e. answering some questions, but leaving much more–often in a heart-grabbing cliff hanger, there are A LOT of theories out there about what’s going on.  Many are bunk and reveal how some people aren’t really paying attention to the show.  Most, though, are pretty solid and have proven to be true. No theory or viewer, including myself, however, has got it figured out 100 percent.  But it’s fun putting the clues together all the same, and to do that it seems key to pay attention to character motives, actions, dialogue, context, appearance (including outfits), connections between characters, some basic understanding of references and word-play, and even the film-editing.

The home page for ABC which airs LOST is the best place to begin for show info and LOST theories sent in by fans, www.abc.com. Another great mainline media and fan site is http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/6867118/ and

While scoping out the theories on the ABC LOST page, I came across this blog called Mirror Matter Moon, http://mirrormattermoon.blogspot.com. It’s a long read and a bit dense, especially if you don’t have the scientific-math brain like me.  But it’s very interesting. The Mirror Matter Moon theory (also known as Through the Looking Glass via Theoretical Physics) explains a lot about the show without spoilers on particular character developments.  I’m not completely convinced that the show is that scientific or complicated. And the theorist makes at least one error in his/her explanation for “Wet Walt.”  The info on the Smoke Monster is insightful but doesn’t hold up 100 percent. Since we know the Smoke Monster can capture a person’s memories and shape shift (as it did in Season 3 by appearing as Eko’s brother Yemi) it makes you wonder if the appearances of characters who are captured or dead are not the Smoke Monster.  Hopefully Season 5 and 6 will lift up the smoke screen.

I do think that the idea of space and time travel and that the dead are spiritually living beings who travel through space and time plays a huge part in the events that occur on the Island. While the creators have strongly denied that the Island is purgatory (and there’s a lot of evidence to suggest it’s clearly not) I do think the Island could a powerful place that facilitates time travel between many worlds and universes, both physical and spiritual.  What is clear is that the show is essentially in its basic form about the exploration of good v. evil (of light and dark), as producers Damon Lindlelof and Carlton Cuse explained in an interview:

“We are interested in exploring how good and evil can be embodied in the same characters and the struggles we all have to overcome the dark parts of our souls.”

(For more of this interview, visit http://www.movieweb.com/dvd/news/96/23096.php)

****Spoiler Alert**** Don’t read the above link or any further in this post if you don’t want to know some of the theories, observations and revealed secrets before watching the Season 4 finale or the series.

 Where did The Island go? or where exactly did Ben go when he made The Island disappear?

 Your guess on where The Island went is as good as anyone elses. Because it’s always invisible to the rest of the world, it could be anywhere in the ocean.  As for Ben, I realized while taking a shower this morning (where some of my best thinking is done) that we found out where Ben ended up in episode 9 of Season 4.  Again in a flash-forward Ben is shown lying face down in a desert in Turkey with a heavy winter Dharma Initiative coat on! He’s immiedately found by a couple of armed Turkish men on horseback, and after a heated Turkish conversation, Ben kills them.  He checks in at a hotel under an alias and checks the date of the newspaper which is 3 years after the Oceanic 6 were rescued (Season 4 finale)…so Ben time-traveled to the future after pushing the wheel that moved the island.  He then of course, according to other flash-forwards, finds Sayid and convinces the former member of the Iraqi guard to assasinate enemies of the island, most likely henchmen working for Charles Widmore all in an effort protect The Island and the people left behind.

Speaking of Widmore, what’s his role in the show?

Well, we know that Widmore, father of Penny–Desmond’s true love, has an obsession with The Island. At an auction, he buys the log of the captain of The Black Rock which crashed on The Island many years ago. He is one of the major funders of the Dharma Initiative which coordinated experiments on The Island in hopes of discovering the place’s unique properties and powers. Widmore plants a decoy Oceanic 815 with dead bodies in the ocean so that no one else will attempt to search for Jack and crew or The Island. Widmore then sends the freighter with scientists Daniel, Charlotte and Miles and crazy Keamy and goons to The Island to regain control.  Widmore and Ben have a rivalry which became evident in flash forwards featuring Ben and Sayid.

The theory, and a very plausible one, that popped up on ABC’s site, is that Widmore was once a leader of the Others who moved The Island, and as a result could never come back (according to the mysterious laws of Jacob).  This would explain Widmore’s obsession with getting back to the island and his willingness to do whatever it takes to succeed. He may have put everything into motion from the beginning of Season 1.  If Widmore used to be a leader of The Others on The Island, he likely has some special or unique intuitive and psychic powers simillar to Locke and Ben. Widmore may even be able to see into the future like Desmond.   If that’s so, that would explain a bunch.

Widmore, knowing that the Oceanic 815 surivors would cause a series of events that would get him back to the island, could’ve arranged for all of the survivors to be on the plane at the same time. Crazy, I know, but possible.

So how did Widmore get the plane to crash? Remember that in Season 3, we disocver that Widmore cruelly rejected Desmond’s request to marry Penny, saying he’s not worthy enough to be a part of the prestigious, powerful and rich Widmore family. Widmore’s words cause Desmond to eventually break up with Penny.  Later, to prove he is worthy enough for Penny and her father, Desmond enters Widmore’s sail boat race. And the race is what puts Desmond on The Island where he ends up entering the crytpic coded numbers and pushing the button every 28 minutes to save the world.  After Desmond encounters the Oceanic 515 survivors, he realizes that he may have caused the plane to crash when he nearly was late entering the code and pressing the button.

Seems Widmore may have had a hand in all this, don’t you think?

How did Locke get off the island and end up getting killed?

Locke took over for Ben as leader of The Others in the Season 4 finale and as Ben explained, would soon learn everything The Others knew about The Island. One of those secrets apparently is how to travel back and forth from The Island just as Ben, the unaging Other Dr. Richard Alpert and The Others have done for years.  Ben, as was revealed in Season 4, had a secret room in his house where he kept dozens of passports with fake names.  The reason seems to be clear: Whenver Ben traveled off The Island, he used aliases to avoid detection by Widmore.  Locke is doing the same and it should be noted that the alias Locke chooses, Jeremy Benthem, is named after the classic philosopher who developed several theories and beliefs that are key in the LOST plot (look up ole Bentham when you get a chance, pretty neat stuff). Locke is dead, I believe, because Widmore’s guys got to him, maybe with the help of Sun. 

It’s also important to note that Bentham was a serious believer in the concept of the greater good, which is an ethic that both Locke and Ben live by.  Although I have not agreed with all of Ben’s actions, I do believe that he’s not as villainous as he seems.  Even though he was flippant about setting off the bomb on the freighter, he also told Locke that emotions can lead to bad decisions.  The season finale seemed to emphasize that Ben, while the perpetrator of some heinous acts, is basically good and trying to do the right thing (I think he’s one of the characters who the show’s creators are enjoying this whole idea of exploring the struggles of good and evil).

Are Jin, Michael, and Claire dead?

I’m not sure what’s going on with Claire. If she is dead, how did she die?  I’m thinking more answers will be revealed in Season 5. Clearly she is alive either physically or spiritually otherwise she wouldn’t know about the bad things that have occurred on The Island since the rescue–things so bad she appeared to Kate in a dream and told her not to bring baby Aaron back.

Jin may or may not be dead…He could have jumped in the water in time and possibly rescued by Daniel and some of the Oceanic survivors that were on the motored raft heading for the freighter. Speaking of which, what happened to Daniel and the folks on the raft. The freighter blew up and then the Island disappeared.

Michael is dead according to interview with actor Harold Perrineau with TV Guide.com http://seattlepi.nwsource.com/tvguide/365208_tvgif30.html

Michael may still be spiritually alive and traveling across a spiritual plane that is on The Island. That would explain the reference to Michael in the conversation between Walt and Hurley.

What is up with Christian Shepherd, Jack and Claire’s dad?

Christian’s recent apperances on The Island feature him in dressed down clothes, often khaki and white with matted hair rather than in his trademark navy business suit and better kept mane as he is shown in flashbacks and when Jack spots him on The Island in Season 1 and in the future.  Keep in mind that Christian’s body was not in the coffin when Jack found the box in the caves in Season 1.  Not sure what this means exactly but definitely significant.

The theme of parental-child relationships is major in LOST, particularly with fathers and sons/daughters, and of these, the one that remains at the center of the show is the relationship between Christian and Jack.  

Christian is dead but clearly is spiritually alive, a ghost if you will who tells Locke in Season 4 that he speaks for Jacob.  Christian also appears rather shockingly on the freighter to tell Michael “You can go now” before the bomb explodes.

Jack ignorance of his purpose on The Island as well as the power of The Island itself, which I feel has much to do with his unresolved feelings with dad, is what causes the “very bad things to happen” according to Locke/Jeremy Bentham. 

The hope is that Jack, with the help of Ben, Sayid, Hurley, Kate, Aaron and the deceased Locke, will make up for his mistakes (just as other characters have done in past seasons).

 

Top 5 Things You Never Say To Your Pregnant Wife

 

Take it from me, there are some things you never, never, never should say, even if it wasn’t quite what you meant, to your pregnant wife:

5.   In a teasing rift, I was thinking of saying ”Whatever pregnant lady!” but instead I said, “Whatever you big pregnant whale!”  For that, I should be sleeping with the fishes.

4. Really for no reason, I have said the following on numerous occassions, “I’m really tired, why don’t you fix dinner?”

3.  Upon seeing my wife’s bluish-purple swollen feet, “Hey, are your feet ok? They kind of look like morgue feet.” If you’ve ever watched Law & Order or CSI, you know what morgue feet are.

2.  As a way of empathizing with my wife’s inability to do as much as she could pre-pregnancy, I inappropriately, but sweetly asked, “Don’t you ever get tired of lying around all day?”

1. After reading an article saying women in post-pregnancy return to the bodies they had before, I told my wife, “You probably don’t want your old body back.”  Again, trying to affirm that my wife’s desire to have a different body weight, and again, I put my big fat shoe in my mouth.

God forgive me, I’m becoming Michael Scott from “The Office”   Maybe I need to read the “Caveman’s Guide to Pregnancy” book a little closer.

 

cartoon courtesy of www.cartoonstock.com

Goodbye Earle

Earle Hagen, who wrote the music to many classic TV Shows, including the theme song to The Andy Griffith Show (one of the greatest of all time) died Monday at the age of 88.  Earle is actually whistling the theme while his son is snapping his fingers during the opening where Andy and Opie walk to Myers Lake for some fishing.

http://tv.msn.com/tv/article.aspx?news=316189>1=7703

As the old John Prine song goes, Earle is probably “fishing and whistlin up in heaven.”

 

The Return of A Childhood Hero

 

After 19 years, it’s delightful to see Indiana Jones on the big screen again in “The Kingdom of the Crystal Skulls.”  Sure, Indiana and those who brought him to life (Ford, Spielberg, Lucas) are older which means neither the character or the story are quite as sharp as they once were.  There are a couple of characters who, by no fault of the actor’s themselves, aren’t given much to do and there is a spot or two of awful dialogue. The film’s ending is anti-climatic, a bit syrupy and seems as disorienting as, well, an aging adventurer trying to adjust to radical technilogical and social-poltical changes in post WWII.

And yet there’s still something exhilirating about seeing the man with the fedora and whip staring at the face of evil in the most improbable of circumstances…while the triumphant Raider’s March is playing, of course…Ba-De-Da, Ba-De-Da-De-Daaaa

I was introduced to Indiana Jones when I was 5 years old. My parents returned from seeing “Raiders of the Lost Ark” with wide eyes and smiles. “It’s the best adventure movie that’s ever been made,” they said.  I was captivated by their excitement and their words held true when I was finally allowed to see the film three years later when it was released on video tape and the sequel “Temple of Doom” hit theaters. 

Watching “Raiders of the Lost Ark” immediately hooked me, line and sinker, into the world of Indiana Jones.  The first one is so amazing it’s hard to name just one favorite scene…the swapping of the golden idol with a bag of sand that results in Indiana being chased out of the cave by a huge boulder (which the comedian Eddie Izzard swears is a giant spider with no legs)…Indiana shooting the swordsman…the intense action sequence where Indiana and Marion are escaping from the Nazi’s…the love scene where Marion takes off an injured Indiana’s shirt as the hero looks into the mirror and says, “Honey, it’s not the years, it’s the mileage.”  And let’s not forget that the whole plot revolves around the Ark of the Covenant–I mean, how cool is that?  (The scene where God melts the evil Nazis still to this day grosses me out and although I’m a firm believer in grace for everyone, I admit that these guy got what was coming. You just don’t mess with God like that.)

I enjoyed the second Indiana adventure just as much, although “Temple of Doom” didn’t have Marion nor contained a more familliar or even Biblical artifact. Still, it met the criteria of a movie-watching 8-year-old: blood, guts, insects, slime, and monkey brains….ewwwwwww.

By the time the third film was released, I was finishing up 8th grade and on the cusp of entering high school.  Indiana was also taking a huge step in his life by bringing his father (played brilliantly by Sean Connery) on the adventure–this time to find the Holy Grail. “The Last Crusade” works so beautifully due to the chemistry Connery and Ford have as father and son as well as the powerful themes of sacrifice and redemption in the film.  And it was comforting for me as an 8th grader to know that even Indiana had it rough as a teen (as viewers discover in the opening minutes of the film, a flashback to younger days). I even had the movie poster on my bedroom wall throughout high school. (The poster is long gone, but I recently bought the Indiana Jones’ version of Mr. Potato Head; when you press down on the hat, the “Raiders March” plays)

During the summer following my freshman year of college at Auburn University, I worked as a counselor for the Presbytery of Sheppards and Lapsley’s summer camping program at Gulftreat Conference Center in Panama City, Fla.  One day, my friend and supervisor Carter Haun and I were talking about the lack of heroes on the screen (It was 1999, many years before Harry Potter and Jack Sparrow would enter the imagination or new & improved superheroes would swing into action).  We lamented the absence of heroes like Indiana Jones. The rough and tough and fallible adventurers who always tried to do what was right in the face of adversity and still manage to get the girl in the end or at least save his friends.

While there have been some great heroes to light up the screen since “The Last Crusade,” ones that I’ve paid to see at midnight or opening day showings, none of them give me quite the thrill as Indiana Jones.

Indy’s wit, sarcasm, ingenuity and sheer courage to fight a Russian brute while surrounded by thousands of “big damn ants” or defend against possessed Mayan grave dwellers who dive in and out of burroughs with poison-tipped blow-darts is what hero-making and hero-watching is all about.  Indy’s adventures at its best are grand escapist fun that have you leaving the theater with a lesson (even a little one) about doing good v. evil in your mind & soul, a smile on your face, and a Ba-De-Da, Ba-De-Da-De-Daaaa in your heart.

Like one film reviewer said, it’s good to see an ole friend again.

Indeed it is.

 

Thankfulness in May

The thankful list for May:

* Spring has sprung!

* Our baby girl will be here in less than a month!

*  York Peppermint Patty Ice Cream from Baskin Robbins (mmmmmmmm….goood)

*  The members of Colesville and Rockville Presbyterian churches who threw wonderful and generous baby showers.

*  Serving God, Saving the Planet by J. Matthew Sleeth

*  Joe Purdy’s “Washed Away”

* The return of The Office and Scrubs–funny times, funny times

*  Re-connecting with old friends on Facebook

* Seeing Eddie Izzard, one of the greatest comedic minds of all time, with John Weicher and his sister Jean at Constitutional Hall in D.C.  I laughed so hard that I got a headache and almost peed in my pants.

* The James Hubert Blake High School’s stunning production of “Les Miserables”; David Tuttle, a youth at Colesville, is a gifted actor who delivered a memorable and incredible performance in 4 different roles; Katya Ankudinov, another youth at CPC, who was a brilliant member of the Ensemble and Lucas Murphey, CPC youth, who played with an orchestra that sounded, note for note, like the original musical score. Inspirational and moving.

* “Do You Hear the People Sing?” from Les Miserables…one of my top 10 songs of all time; gives me goosebumps.

* You, ole faithful readers of this blog.